Marriage License

Just to clarify. . . I'm posting twice, because I didn't want to post something huge.

Today David and I went and got our marriage license,

so technically we could just run somewhere and elope. . .

I mean Vegas is what? An  hour and a half away!

But we won't. . .

Maybe. . .

It's just so stressful planning every single tiny detail of such a huge event.

What shoes,

what colors,

what food,

what ties,

what dress,

what hairstyle,

where at,

what time,

who to invite,

find an apartment,

make

label

send invites,

blah, blah, blah. . .

One thing I know is that on any given day any or all of these things will come at me all at once

and I feel like I can't make a quick decision

and I end up making a few, but shutting the rest out until I can have some me time.

Which, by the way,

me time

is hard to find now-a-days.

One thing I have been starting to do is having at least an hour or two to be alone with myself at night before bed or in the morning when I wake up.

I work out,

or read a book,

or pinterest,

or take a bubble bath,

or (in this case) blog.
And it's a nice way to start and/or end a day.

After I've started doing this

I notice that I've been able to handle a lot more stress

than I would have.

And I've been a lot more calm when things start clashing.

Still though. . .

We could elope.

;)